1. that they are above average intelligence.
2. that they fairly good looking.
3. that they are a “people person.”
4. that they have a sense of humor.
5. that they are open-minded.
Today I am adding “team player” to the list. Most people think they are team players.
6. that they are a team player.
Most people think that they are good looking.
Studies show that one out of three people would be considered ugly. So look to your right and left. If you don’t see ugly, guess what?
Most people think that they are a “people person.”
This bugs me. Not everyone can be a people person. I believe that people persons are rare. In my own experience, people who claim to be a people person are not. Being a people person is not a title you may bestow upon yourself. It is granted to you by people who actually know you. However, most people want to be thought of as a people person. People persons are not your every day, average individuals. They have a special talent for dealing with people, and that talent is that they make people happy. That is the way you can identify real people persons; they are happy, their administrative assistants are happy, their bosses and subordinates are happy, and their customers are happy. They also go out of their way to make people happy by volunteering in various programs to help people. People persons visits prisons, help the handicapped, visit the elderly, or help the poor in some manner. If a person claims to be a people person and the people around them are not happy and they do nothing to help people, they are simply wanna be’s.